“I wish I had placed more work in my classes, by now we would have risen ranks that are many. Only if i possibly could turn back time and avoided the mistakes that made my company go under. It’s because of maybe not taking her seriously that she left and today is into the hands of some other man.” These are but some samples of regrets that a few of us are having now. Yes you aren’t at the place you’d have wished to be at. Yes you’re nearing 40 years and you still haven’t found your footing. But this doesn’t suggest you must keep beating up yourself for past problems and mistakes. And also as Richard Branson once said “You do not learn to walk by after rules. You learn by doing and by falling over”.